Wednesday 20 July 2011

Soul makeover



I feel my creativity being sucked out of my being with every passing hour. Life has pretty much become a job-home-job routine and the monotony of this routine is killing my once free spirit. I don't blame anyone for it. It was always up to me and will always be up to me to steer my life in the direction I want it to take and I take full responsibility for the fact that my life has become a huge circus with my "precious" job as the only act. I was moping over this fact for the longest time and causing an ever more poisonous environment for myself and even for my near and dear ones.


I decided that enough was enough, I had to act fast before I turned into an old hag at the age of 25.I was speaking to my close friend about how my life had turned out to be and she told me that the secret to her balanced life was doing at least one thing a day for yourself, one thing you truly enjoy doing.

I consider it a realistic goal and have set my mind that this small baby step will be the beginning of a balanced life I have always seeked for. In the hurry to get to our goal we sometimes tend to forget that when we reach the end of the road the journey is the only thing that will matter, the only thing worth remembering. Today I pledge to make my life's journey a memorable one.

Friday 1 July 2011

Heartbreak


This blog is dedicated to anyone that has ever had her/his heart broken.


Recently my best friend went thought a major breakup. She went through a pretty rough phase. But instead of her experience making me skeptical about love it made me appreciate that value of "true love" even more. Falling in love is the simplest thing.But finding true love is the hardest thing. I feel so blessed to have that person in my life.

Her love story started off very much like a fairy tale, a whirlwind mills-n-boons type romance where one could not live without the other. Promises were made with anticipation of a beautiful future. But these promises met their untimely death when faced with the reality of life "nothing remains constant, except for change itself". In her case it was no body's fault, love just ran its course but could not survive the test of times.

Its been months since the breakup and my friend has moved on and the pain that once seemed unbearable is now a gentle reminder of a person who had loved her once, indeed there is nothing that time cannot heal. It will take her some time to open her heart to another person's love and be vulnerable again but I know for a fact that she will never give up on love itself. She will start loving again and find the person who truly loves and above all deserves her.

We see hearts break and may have even had our hearts broken but we as humans can never give up our hope for a "Happily ever after" Cinderella story. I really do believe that God has created that one person for each one of us, that one guy/girl for whom the mere thought of hurting you is enough to break his/her own heart